But God loves fairness

Psalm 103:6 The Lord gives righteousness and justice to all who are treated unfairly.

Litany of Penitence 3:

For our unrighteous anger, bitterness, and resentment

For all lies, gossip, and slander against our neighbors.

Lord, have mercy upon us:

For we have sinned against you.

There are two sides to this confession: our response to those who have hurt us, and our own unjust thoughts, feelings, words, and actions against others.

We need God’s mercy and healing in both. He longs to restore us rather than punish us.

For I, the Lord, love justice. I hate robbery and wrongdoing. I will faithfully reward my people for their suffering … The Sovereign Lord will show his justice to the nations of the world. Everyone will praise him! His righteousness will be like a garden in early spring with plants springing up everywhere (Isaiah 61:8, 11).

Be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while. … Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will bless you for it (1 Peter 1:6, 3:9).

One of Karis’s favorite songs:

Oceans (Where Feet May Fail), Hillsong